Showing posts with label your big day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label your big day. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Vow Vow Vow Voom


The vows can often be the single most important overlooked detail of your entire wedding.   The traditional vows are fine don't get me wrong , if it ain't broke don't fix it right?  However, I am sure that there are some  couples out there that want to spice things up a bit and write their own wedding vows.  It can seem a little overwhelming to take on the vow writing task, but we are here to give you a few tips to help you wow your love and your guest with your wedding vows.




1. Allow your vow style to be a reflection of your couple style - Now isn't the time to try to create a whole new couples style.  Let your guest see what it is that makes you so unique.  So, if you love to laugh together feel free to add in a couple of funny lines.

2. Speak from your heart - This is the one moment that you have to tell your friends and family why you are marrying this special person.  Express to your love all the things about them that makes your heart skip a beat.  Wedding day is the perfect day to get a little mushy.

3. Give yourself time - Start writing your vows at least 6 weeks before your big day, the last thing you need is the pressure of writing your vows the night before.  Start to jot down thoughts and feelings as you move throughout everyday life.  Keep a small notepad with you at all times so that you capture your thoughts at any moment.

These are just a few tips to help you get started on your vow writing journey.  Our most important tip - Have fun!

Are you writing your own vows?

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Terrific Find Tuesday - Cold Stone Creamery in South Orange, NJ

So we were hired to plan a surprise party for our client's sister (such a great gesture).  We only have a month to plan so we have had to work overtime to make this day great.  Today, we went cake shopping.

We started out at a "traditional" bakery as directed by the venue.  Its a well know well respected place that does produced really great cakes( I even use them personally) after meeting with the cake designer and noticing that we would be coming in a little over budget, I recalled a tip that my client shared about the guest of honor, She liked a specific cake from Cold Stone Creamery.  So I went to check them out and ended up at the Cold Stone Creamy that what was closet to our office located at 3 Sloan Street  South Orange, NJ 07079, by the train station.

Well BOY was I in for a treat!  The staff  was super helpful in answering all my questions & proved me wrong in a good way all at the same time.  I went in kinda doubtful thinking I was only going to be able to get a square or round plain boring cake... WAS I ever re-educated.  Instead the staff brought out books and photos of a awesome looking cakes, I was amazed!!!! Tiers, heart shapes, and even wedding cakes.  Anything you can imagine from a standard bakery cake they can do it with Ice Cream from Cold Stone.  They even deliver!!!! 

I was able to choose a cake style & discuss a design  that I know the client will love, all at a price that will fit my clients budget with the Cake Designer. Yes, they have a professional cake designer on staff just for people like us!  Can you say over joyed?

Here is a sneak peak of the design idea we have.  I can't wait to show-off the real deal in a couple weeks.



All and all so far I have had a great experience with this Cold Stone Creamery.  I urge you to check them out the next time you are looking to have some cake and eat your ice cream too.


A Couple of tips before deciding that ice cream cake is for you:

1) Time of year - In the heat of summer ice cream cake for a more formal function wedding or outdoor function may not be so wise.  If you choose to go with ice cream make sure that the place you purchase is not really to far from your venue.  Know that you may not be able to fully display the cake at your event like you would a traditional cake.

2) Advanced Prep & Planning - Ensure that your venue can support the hosting of an ice cream cake BEFORE you order.  Make sure they will have the freezer capacity to keep the cake cold until shortly before served.

Other then that GO for it!

Cold Stone Creamery
3 Sloan Street
So. Orange, NJ 07079
973-762-1835

Happy Planning,

Ingrid M. Williams
908-206-4107
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info@yourbigdayllc.com

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Terrific Find Tuesday - Hallak Cleaners

Today I went on a tour of  Hallak Cleaners.  It was the coolest thing I've done all month.  I know the first thing you may wonder is how much fun can I have a cleaners? Rest assured that Hallak Cleaners is far from just an "ordinary" cleaners. 


photos from Hallak.com
The decor and colors of the cleaners make you feel so comfortable upon walking in.  It just puts you into a great mood, along with the front of the store staff that is very friendly and helpful.  I had the honor of receiving a warm greeting from John-Claude Hallak, VP of Hallak Cleaners & Donna Serino who spearheads the bridal gown preservation division, they then took me on a behind the scenes tour of the Hackensack, NJ location and that is where the fun began!  (Please note there is a NY location. See below for details).


photo from Hallack.com

I was able to get a mini course in all the equipment that is used to make their magic happen.  They had a lot of fancy gadgets and the automation & tracking of each item that comes in was mind blowing.  However, I was most impressed by the fact that they have a person(really nice lady) who actually inspects every item before it goes back to the customer.  Nothing leaves the grounds before it gets her stamp of approval.

So WHY do you ask this EVENT PLANNER  touring a Cleaners? For two reasons:

1) The employees are GREAT
2) The EXCELLENT reputation they have for cleaning and preserving your wedding gown.

You have invested THOUSANDS of dollars into your wedding dress, why not invest in making sure its handled with care after your big day?  I highly suggest that all brides-to-be who read this blog post contact them to learn more about their gown preservation process.  What was truly impressive to me was the passion, skill, & excellence that the Hallak family and its employees operate with daily.  I could see the pride and passion that John brings to his business and that alone sold me.  I will be telling all our brides about this great service.  As  BONUS they also provide alterations if you need before wedding day.


Suzanne DeChillo/The New York Times
click here for full -article by Robin Fin

Please take a moment to check out Hallak Cleaners & tell them Your Big Day sent you.

Hallak Cleaners Contact Information
http://www.hallak.com/

New York Location
1232 Second Avenue (at 65th)

New York, NY 10065
212.832.0750


Hackensack Location172 Johnson Avenue
Hackensack, NJ 07601
201.343.7333

Toll Free: 888.343.2111
Fax: 201.343.0223

Happily planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
mailto:info%7B@%7Dyourbigdayllc%7Bdot%7Dcom
908-206-4107

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Terrific Finds: Non-Floral Centerpieces

Hey Brides and Grooms! Welcome to our new weekly segment, 'Terrific Find Tuesdays.' Every Tuesday, we will be bringing you unique and fun ideas that won't bust your wedding budget. Our goal is to provide you with inspirations that you can incorporate on your wedding day.

First, let's start off with a quick game of word association. What comes to mind when you see the words: Wedding Centerpiece? Well, it would be safe to assume that a majority of you answered flowers without even giving it a second thought. It's not surprising, since flowers are one of the most popular and widely used forms of centerpieces at wedding receptions. With all the fantasy wedding reality shows out there displaying fabulously elaborate floral masterpieces, couples everywhere are vying to recreate them in their own weddings. However, beautiful as flowers are, creating a floral display on multiple tables can sometimes become expensive. Now, don't fret if having a grand floral centerpiece will put you over your budget. Just take a look at these fabulous budget friendly alternatives.

Fruit
When it comes to centerpieces, we usually see fruits taking on the supporting role. Don't underestimate the star power of the fruit. With the wide variety of fruit in an assortment of colors, there are many directions you can take with nature's sweets. They can add a nice splash of color that could light up a room just as well as any flower.

{Martha Stewart Weddings}

{Canada Bride}

Wedding Favors
Wedding favors are usually placed on the reception tables; why not having them as the focal point?

{Martha Stewart Weddings}

Lampshade Centerpieces
Lampshades are a fun, unique, and quirky trend that will be sure to add some pizazz at your reception. You can play around with the lighting to give off a nice effect at each table.

{Cocktails Details}

{Cocktails Details}

Candy Galore!
Any centerpiece that satisfies the sweet tooth is sure to be a hit among your guests. A candy-fied diversion is definitely an eye catcher and will bring out the child in all. What's even better than candy centerpieces....saving money! Have your sweet centerpieces also serve as wedding favors to cut down on costs.
{BridalBuds}


It's 'All about You'
Instead of having your guests fawn over a floral display, how about using your centerpiece to reinforce you and your love as the day's focal point...your wedding day IS all about you. Have different portraits set up with some trivia about you. This is a nice personal touch and a great way to share more about your journey as a couple with your guests.

{Pearl Events Austin}
{Offbeat Bride}

So, if having a floral centerpiece will put you over your wedding budget, don't panic - there are great alternatives out there. Instead, we hope that the suggestions we have provided inspire you to think outside the box and find the right fit for your wedding.


Happily Planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info@yourbigdayllc.com
908-206-4107

Friday, January 28, 2011

Cupcakes, Cookies, and Pie, Oh My!

The wedding cake: seen by most as one of THE focal points of the wedding reception (and a tasty one at that!). As appealing as wedding cakes are, not everyone starts drooling at the sight of a rich vanilla cake or even a three-tiered whimsical masterpiece. Cakes as the wedding dessert of choice have become the traditional pick, and even with the many options they can borderline the mundane. So, for those of you looking to veer off the typical eating path, even just slightly, here are some options to consider for your upcoming nuptials:


Pie in the Sky

With dozens of delicious flavors to choose from, there is a pie to satisfy almost everyone of your guests: vegan, meringue, chocolate, fruit filled, cream, etc. You can choose to have assorted pies on tiered cake stands or a buffet-style 'pie' table flanked with flowers, candles, or whatever form of decoration you choose. An added bonus is that pies are less costly than cakes.

Cupcakes Galore


Who doesn’t enjoy a cupcake? This treat is becoming quite the popular confectionery at weddings. Cupcakes can be arranged on a stand, stacked together to create a cupcake cake, and even spell out your wedding date. And if you choose to have a variety of cupcake options, your guests are more likely to find the cupcake that satisfy their sweet tooth. To give each cupcake a personal flair, how about personalizing each individual cupcake with its own special design, cupcake topper, flower….it’s up to you. When it comes to presentation and variety, the possibilities are endless.

Cake Pops


If you love a good wedding cake but want to put a twist on it, why not incorporate the absolutely adorable cake pops in the sweet portion of your reception. These bite size cake balls on sticks make for perfect finger treats. They’re just cute and sweet enough to tempt even those guests vowing to stay away. Simply put, they take the cake! .


Cookie, Cookie, Cookies


When you think of wedding sweets, cookies may not seem the go-to revolutionary and unique treat. But if you love a great cookie, it may be a good idea to share that love affair with your guests. You can arrange a colorful display of assorted cookie options that look as appealing as the cookies are tasty. For something a little different, have a giant gourmet cookie cake. You'd be surprised how a cookie can be transformed to fit your wedding. Never underestimate the power of a cookie.
 

Doughnuts

Mmmmm, donuts….at a wedding? It feels weird putting doughnuts and weddings in the same sentence let alone trying to picture them as a match made in heaven. But you have to admit, it makes your mouth water, doesn’t it? You can choose from a wide variety of doughnuts and mix and match them to create the ultimate doughnut cake.




Whether you’re looking to surprise your guests with something off-the-wall or simply compliment your wedding cake, consider having these treats at your wedding.

(Photo Credits: Brosnan Photographic, Weddingcollections, Bakerella, Eleni NYC, Wedding Bee, Budget Bride, Dog N Bird, East Side Bride, Yum Sugar, The Knot)

Monday, January 17, 2011

New Take on the Unity Candle Tradition

We’ve all seen it done before: the officiant says some words on two lives coming together and then the bride and groom each take a lit candle from their respective family candle and together light a "unity candle." The unity candle ceremony holds great meaning, symbolizing two families coming together and two individuals becoming one ‘unit.’ The problem is, nowadays this particular ceremony has become more of a routine custom and mostly goes unnoticed.

For those of you who want a unity ceremony at your wedding but one that will hold more personal significance, try putting a twist on the unity candle ceremony. Here are two alternative ideas that will get you thinking of how to incorporate the unity ceremony in a way that will make a more memorable impression at your upcoming nuptial.


Ring a Bell

An old wedding superstition regarding bells was that ringing bells at the ceremony would ward off evil spirits intent on wrecking havoc on the newlywed couple’s bliss. The bells were also thought to bring good fortune to the couple. Although this superstition has faded into the past, bells are still rung as a celebration of the couple's love, happiness, and union. 

A great way of incorporating the wedding bell tradition into your unity ceremony is by ringing bells. To start off the ceremony, the officiant can explain to your guests the symbolism of the wedding bell and walk them through the process: the bride and groom will each have a bell in hand and then after tying them with a bow, they will proceed to ring the bell together. If possible, another option is to ring the bell at the venue. This will represent the couple's commitment to work together to maintain their love through the good and the bad. After the wedding day, the bells can be placed in the wedded couple's home and whenever there is an argument, one of them can ring the bells, reminding them both of their wedding day bliss and their vow to work through the bad times, together.


Plant It Together


The planting of a tree sapling or a seedling of choice represents the start of your new life as a wedded couple. The planting ceremony works great for those who choose to have an outdoor wedding. To avoid a mess, have the sapling or seedling potted beforehand and two small hand shovels with a small scoop of soil in each. And during the planting ceremony, simply slide the scoop of soil into the pot. Another option is to just water the seedling during the planting ceremony.

This will be a constant reminder that like a plant in order for the couple’s love to stay alive and grow stronger, they will need to nurture it constantly and consistently. And as the couple works together to cultivate their relationship they will grow stronger in each other. For those who are passionate about the environment and love nature, this ceremony will hold an added meaning.



Whether you choose to include the above options in your wedding or come up with your own tradition, make sure your unity ceremony holds personal significance for you and your groom.


(Photo credits:  Shoponline2011.com, Illustrationsource.com, Micah Dahlberg Photography, 2000 Dollar Wedding)   

Friday, January 14, 2011

Food Trucks: Wedding Craze!?! or Just Crazy?

Food Truck: A new wedding trend that is catching some speed in 2011.
100layercake.com
Whether it is used as a catering alternative during cocktail hour, the wedding after party, or even (gasp!) the main course, food trucks are popping up at weddings and special events. This may come as a surprise since food trucks used to conjure the image of greasy food and workers with questionable hygiene - not anymore. With the increasing popularity of The Great Food Truck Race on the Food Network, gourmet food trucks are becoming more than just an LA thing.  People are starting to take notice and are incorporating them in a big way on their big day.
 
Associated Press

For those looking for something different and unique at their weddings, using food trucks to cater their event is an option to consider (seriously). They offer a wide range of food choices from tacos, escargot, waffles, gourmet ice cream, cupcakes — the hardest part may be narrowing down your options. With food trucks, you can go for casual food options are something more upscale. The concept is quirky and fun. This tasty novelty can be a great talking piece and makes for an interesting photo op.

Jihan Abdalla Photography via Wedding Chicks

The idea of using food trucks at weddings or any special event could seem a little bit too off kilter for most. In fact, as interesting as the concept sounds on paper, it may not be a practical choice for every wedding or event. Even if you don't think food trucks will work for your big day, you have to admit, they sure look like a lot a fun!

Monday, January 10, 2011

New Take on Wedding Guest Books

Capturing moments allow us to treasure memories for a lifetime.....

You spend months planning every last detail of your wedding, making sure that your big day will be a great memory treasured by all who attend. However, when your wedding day finally arrives, everything happens so quickly, almost as if it's a dream.  As much as you want to have every detail of your wedding day branded into your mind, over time even the most precious moments can began just a blur. Besides, on your wedding day, you will be so busy focusing on each other that you may forget certain details like all the well wishes from your guests.


To help avoid that, newlywed couples usually incorporate a wedding guest book. Traditionally, guests leave a nice little note and their signature for the married couple in a nicely designed guest book. Booooring. Tradition is nice and all, but how about trying a more modern and unique approach that will stand out and make for a much more fun experience for you and your guests.

Take a Picture, It'll last longer

They say "a picture is worth a thousand words." Just imagine how much more of an impact your guest book can have, in years to come, if you add pictures. Polaroid guest books are becoming an ever increasing trend at weddings because of their ability to capture more than just faces but the emotions in that moment. And when you go through your guest book thirty years from now, it'll take away the guess work of trying to visualize who wished you "a lifetime of great memories together." Polaroid guest books are a great way of involving guests in capturing spontaneous and candid memories for the bride and groom. And they're quick and easy to use.

Captured E-Motion

Who doesn't love photo booths. Well, there is a new and popular trend at weddings with an interesting take on the photo booth idea: Video Booths. Think video confessionals - reality TV style! Video Booths are a fun way for your guests to leave spontaneous, fun, and personal video messages. This is a creative alternative to the traditional guest book that will be as fun to watch as it was for your guests to make. And for those of you who love to share your every moment with the webiverse, you can easily upload your guest book online via the social media platform of your choosing.

Writing on the Quilt

For those looking to immortalize their big day and also pass down the memory from generation to generation, the quilted version of a guest book is the way to go. All you need are permanent markers and fabric squares to create a uniquely personalize "guest book." Guests will definitely feel like they are sharing a big part of your history, knowing their words will be woven together to create a touching memento: the wedding quilt.




For your upcoming nuptials, take a more personalized and fun approach to capture memories from your big day.

(Credits: Beau Coup, Suite101.com)

Monday, January 3, 2011

Ringin' in the New Year!

Happy New Year!  We are soo happy to be able to start a new year off with such great supporters. 

With so many people becoming engaged over the holiday.  We thought it would be fun to take a look at some rings.. Napkin rings that is.


                                                 (Etsy:Tradewind Tiaras)


We personally think that napkin rings are like the shoe of the table, if you find the perfect one,  it takes your whole table to a different level.


                                                      (Faberage Napkin Holders)

If your budget allows splurge a little on buying, renting or making your own napkin rings.  Your table will thank you later. 


                                           (Kremjo.com)
So if you are looking to add a little spice to the tablescape at your next event, why not put a ring on it!

 Have a great weekend!

Happy Planning!

Your Big Day
(http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/)

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

New Year, New Us...

 


  

2010 has been so good to us. We have accomplished many of the goals we wanted to this year, and a few that we will roll over to 2011.



We are located in NJ & the snow has given us some time to reflect on how we can better serve you  and we are super excited to put our plans into action.






Soo if you didn't fulfill your whole 2010 "To Do" list, don't let that discourage you from completing the task in 2011.  You only fail at your goals if you abandon them.







Find strength in 2011 to be the best you can.  Don't worry Your Big Day will be with you every step of the way to help you celebrate even the smallest victory.  Happy New Year!

Look for some great new things coming from us in 2011...

Happily Planning,

Your Big Day

http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Raising the Bar


In today's economic climate we know that couples are looking for ways to keep spending cost down. With food & drink being roughly 50% of the wedding budget, some couples are looking into ways to save in this area. Many have turned to cash bar or are thinking of having a Cash Bar on their big day.

I wanted to share a few reasons why when it comes to your wedding day "Cash Bar" is not king, if you are deciding to provide alcohol at your wedding.



Your wedding day is the largest party you and your husband will host as a married couple. Keep in mind that some people have paid travel expense to join you at your wedding, most local guest may have purchased attire to adhere to the dress code on your invitation, and mostly everyone in the room has brought you a gift to celebrate your new union. Preparation cost to attend your wedding can actually exceed the cost you are paying person for invited guest. As a couple you have extended an invitation for others to join in the happiness of your big day and guest should not be required to pay for a meal or a drink.



Here are 3 alternatives to a cash bar for your consideration.

1) Limited 'Open Bar' hours - you bar doesn't need to stay open for the full amount of hours that you have of your wedding. Maybe you have open bar for the 3 hours which is way less expensive then a full 5 hour open bar.

2) Limit Bar Options - Offer Beer, Wine, Soda only.

3) Create a Signature Drink - Work with your venue to create a signature drink that is available for guest all night. The venue will be only need the ingredients for your signature drink saving both you and the venue money.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Wedding Professional Spotlight: Deposit a Gift

We recently had the opportunity to interview Dana Ostomel, founder of Deposit a Gift.  We hope you enjoy this inside look at such a unique registry service.




1) YBD: Hello! Please introduce yourself and tell us how many years you have been in business.


DAG: Thank you for sharing the Deposit a Gift cash gift registry service with your readers and clients! We are delighted to be part of the blog for Your Big Day. My name is Dana and I am the Founder and Chief Gifting Officer. We launched our service at the end of last year and are already servicing thousands of users.

2) YBD: Tell us about Deposit a Gift and why you decided to start this company.


DAG: Years before I got married, I wondered how anyone could store so many presents—and even if they could, how they had the time to unwrap, return (often), track and use them all. The way we live has changed and it is driving a different set of ‘starter’ needs: we’re more mobile, getting married and having kids later, are more eco-conscious and thinking longer term – we need a gifting option that makes sense for our changing times, one that is flexible and can accommodate a variety of needs. I started to think that I could simplify the registry process—and not just for weddings, but for any big gifting event, while still offering a gratifying gifting experience that is important to gift-givers. And so Deposit a Gift, the next generation gift registry was born.


3) YBD: What makes Deposit a Gift unique?


DAG: Simply put, Deposit a Gift is a less crass way of asking for cash. Our registry let's friends and family contribute monetarily towards dreams and experiences you want most. It's incredibly user friendly, and offers a great alternative to traditional registries -- ideal for couples who already live together and have all their pots and pans, blenders and wine glasses. Our registry was built to function like a department store registry to be easy on gift-givers, but allows couples to register for anything — from honeymoons to home down payments, newlywed activities to charities.


4) YBD:  How do you provide added value for the soon-to-be wedded pair?

DAG: Customer support is hugely important to us. We want our users to benefit from the flexibility that comes with an online cash gift registry, while still not losing the personal support that they would get from an in-store registry. I try to make myself available to our users as much as they’ll allow, to ensure they know that they can count on us for anything they need during this important moment in their lives.


5) YBD: What are the benefits of using Deposit a Gift (for engaged couples and gift-givers)?

DAG: Everything about Deposit a Gift is about choice, so the power is in your hands:

• You can choose to register for more than just your honeymoon, OR create a hybrid registry of ‘honeymoon + newlywed activities’ OR ‘volunteer honeymoon + charity’ -> THE ONLY LIMIT IS YOUR IMAGINATION

• You can choose when you redeem your gift money and do it as often as you want

• You can choose how to redeem your gift money: via free direct deposit, personal check or Visa gift card

• You choose when to publish your registry and make it publicly accessible

• You can choose to use our site as the hub for all your event details or you can choose to just use the pages you want and turn the others off. Please feel free to view this sample page.
• You can choose to list your other registries on the same page so that everything is in one place and convenient for guests

• You can choose to keep your environmental impact to a minimum and get what you want: No shipping. No gift wrap. No returns. Just the green you want for what you need down the road.

• And, importantly, you can choose when and where to spend your gift money without worrying about store credits or misplace receipts. This allows you the freedom to do many things: save for a larger goal, shop at your own pace from more unique stores, buy locally and support your community’s small businesses and local artists



6) YBD: How does using your service simplify the registry process for the engaged couple?

DAG: Our goal is to offer the most fun, flexible, hassle-free experience possible to both user and guest:

• You don’t have to work so hard to ‘spread the word’ about what you want. A Deposit a Gift wedding website has the cash gift registry ‘baked in’ amongst the rest of the wedding details. So you can circulate the site to your guests comfortable that you are sharing valuable information that they need about the wedding, but also that the registry you most want them to use is easily accessible in a subtle way.

• You don’t need to spend hours in a store or online picking out gifts

• You don’t have to worry about misplacing credits or stores going out of business

• You don’t need to agree with your partner about everything you are picking out

• No one needs to spend their weekend returning gifts

• There are no returns, no space constraints

• Guests traveling from afar don’t have to worry about transporting gifts

• If you have guests coming from another country, receiving cash gifts through Deposit a Gift can help ensure that you don’t lose money on depositing foreign checks or contending with exchange rates

• You don’t have to worry about any of the gifts getting lost or misplaced on The Big Day. Plus it’s a convenient option for guests who want the ease and security of paying with credit card.

• It’s perfect for showers too! We offer a printable gift certificate at checkout that guests can use if they want to bring a gift to the party. There is also a time delay option so that the user won’t be notified of the gift until after the shower. Find more tips by clicking here.


7) YBD: What tips or advice do you have for engaged couples preparing their registry?

DAG: TOP 5 REGISTRY TIPS:

1. Create at least 1 registry, not more than 3. If you are among the couples that feel uncomfortable ‘asking’ for gifts, try to shift your focus and keep in mind that you are not ‘asking’ for anything. A registry is an idea list that relieves guests of guess-work and stress, and is anything but a list of demands. It’s good to give your guests choices, so 2-3 registries is a typical sweet spot, while not being overwhelming.

2. Don’t have separate registries per event. There is only 1 thing happening here: you are getting married. When you register, you are creating gift lists for this occasion in its entirety and these registries may be used for everything from an engagement party to a bridal shower to a bachelorette party. Don’t let semantics confuse you…some stores call it a wedding registry, some a bridal registry, some a gift list, but they are all the same thing.

3. Make it fun -- think like a gift-giver! Although this is your moment, you’ll fare better if you keep your guests in mind. This does not mean that you should stress about what they’re thinking, you’ll think, they’re thinking and all of that emotional head garbage! Thinking like a gift-giver means: What do you like to give as a gift? If you’re like most, you want to give something special that you’ll be remembered fondly for. So whether you’re making a registry to update your kitchen or registering for a new home fund, try to create a list of special gift items that feels personal and is fun for guests to shop from.

4. Keep it simple and all in 1 place. Many guests struggle just to keep up with the details, book hotels and manage flights, let alone make sure they buy you a nice gift. The last thing you want is for the registry to add to their confusion. Today wedding websites are easy, often free and the perfect tool to stay organized: Fill them with all the wedding details, including the registry information so guests have it handy. The wedding website URL can be included on an invitation insert or emailed as appropriate.

5. Online availability is key: Make sure to have at least 1 registry with an online shopping option so guests can just click and go. You’ll be surprised how many gifts are bought the night before or the day of the event.

8) YBD: What is one thing you want everyone to know about Deposit a Gift?

DAG: Deposit a Gift is the service to use when you prefer cash gifts.

How you can connect with Dana & Deposit A Gift

If you have any questions that you would like to ask Dana directly, she can be reached at: support@depositagift.com Follow her: http://www.twitter.com/DepositaGift Keep up with Deposit a Gift’s news: http://www.facebook.com/DepositaGift

Monday, October 25, 2010

I think I love my bridesmaids




I watch some bridezilla episodes and cringe at how the brides often turn their bridesmaids into verbal punching bags. Planning a wedding can be overwhelming to a bride. Here are a couple of tips that can help you & your bridesmaids have a positive, stress -free planning experience.
Brides




1) Make sure that you're selecting bridesmaids that are supportive - Select friends and families that are supportive of your relationship and who will love and support you not only through the planning process but through your marriage.


2) Create a task sheet for each bridesmaids - Since you know your friends best make sure you assign them task that highlight their strengths.



3) Schedule regular meetings with your bridesmaids - You can set the frequency of meeting depending on how much planning time you have. For example if you have 1 year to plan you may want to schedule meeting every 3 months, with more frequent meeting as the wedding date gets closer.


4) Create a bridesmaids newsletter - include information about their dresses, shoes, hair styles. As well as information about the wedding location, time, & day of time lines. You can also include small details like where you are honeymooning and information about the wedding professionals that you have hired.


5) Be kind to your Bridesmaids - Don't take your wedding stress out on your bridesmaids. Remember they have feelings too. Everyone wants to feel respected and valued including your bridesmaids.



Bridesmaids

1) Be committed - If you have agreed to be a bridesmaid, you are making a pledge to the bride that you will be committed to her big day. That commitment extends further then just putting on a dress on wedding day. We know that you have responsibilities outside of "the wedding" but once you agree to participate in the bride's big day. Be prepared to commit yourself when called upon.

2) Be Honest - If you cannot commit fully to the wedding and all that comes with it. Inform your bride upon her asking. Let her know of anything that may hinder your full commitment to her big day so that she can plan accordingly.

3) Check- in on your bride - Try to reach out to the bride via phone, text, or e-mail at least once every two weeks. It allows the bride to know that you are thinking about her. Giving her a sense that she is not alone during the hectic planning time. Allowing the bride to be more relaxed.
4) Have a good attitude - When asked to participate or assist with a task check your attitude. It may not be your favorite task, but remember the bride is asking because she needs help. Make sure you give your attitude an adjustment so that you don't bring any added stress to the situation.
The most important thing for both the bride and bridesmaids to remember is to have fun! Enjoy!


Monday, October 18, 2010

Green Your Wedding Day



One of the biggest milestones for a couple: Your wedding day! This is the day to show to everyone your love and ultimate commitment to each other. It is also a great opportunity to show your passion for the environment. So why not incorporate something important to you, like taking care of our environment, into your big day. For those who are passionate about the environment or even just interested in minimizing their carbon footprint, here are a few ways to make your wedding day green and fabulous.

Eco Invites

So you're engaged! Yaaay! The date has been set. Check. Now, it's time to start sending out the invites. For those looking to be environment friendly on your wedding day, your invitations are the perfect place to set the tone for your 'green' nuptials.

Electronic Invitations (Evites)
To cut down on the use of paper and reduce waste and energy, many engaged couples are making their big announcements electronically. This being the digital generation, it is not a surprise that many couples are leaning to this growing trend. With sites like ourwedvite.com and MyInvitationLink.com, you can have personalized electronic wedding invitations that are sure to rival traditional invitations. If the idea of reducing your paper consumption doesn't tempt you, think of how much you will save on printing and postage. You should also look into having a wedding site to keep your guests updated. Click here to create your wedding website.

Eco Paper Invites

For those who prefer sending out invitations the traditional way, yet still want to do their part to help the environment, invitations on recycled paper are the way to go. You will have a variety of options to still get "your green on", from seed-embedded handcrafted sheets, reclaimed cotton, bamboo, 100% recycled premium stock, and others. You can also use vegetable or soy ink for your print, to make your invites recyclable.



Green Favors

Wedding favors can be a great way of showing your personality and giving back to your guests and the environment. More and more couples are giving out favors that are not wasteful or harmful to the environment. Couples can reduce their carbon footprint by doing something as simple as getting favors from local vendors.

An alternative wedding favor that is also eco-friendly is having your escort card also servce as a plantable favor. Have your guests plant these favors in memory of your wedding that will also help the environment. Also, with this is breast cancer awareness month, we found a timely favor: Kate Aspen's In Favor of Cure. You can give your guests pink ribbon plantable favors. Kate Aspen donates 10% of proceeds from this favor to women’s breast cancer and health-focused charities.




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Green Up Your Dress

Yes, you can go green on your wedding day right down to your special dress. The most obvious choice is to re-use a gown. Your choices range from buying vintage, renting, or wearing your mother's dress. Not only are these eco-friendly options but will not be as straining on your pocket. A great option is Brides Against Breast Cancer where you can purchase sample and donated gowns at a discounted price. Bride Against Breast Cancer donates the proceeds to help women with breast cancer. You can get the dress of your dreams and be environmentally friendly, all while helping to make strides in the fight against breast cancer! After your wedding, you could also donate your dress to this organization.

And if having a new dress is a must for you, consider eco-friendly fabrics such as linen, hemp, organic cotton, and silk.

Going green doesn't mean you have to sacrifice quality on your big day. If you decide to be eco-friendly on your wedding day, it will be more like a celebration of your life, love, and passion for each other and the environment. This will be sure to have your day remembered on a larger scale.

So will you add a little 'green' into your big day?