Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Wedding Wednesday - Picking the Right Venue for You

Location, Location, Location! For weddings, as in real estate, picking the location and venue for your big day is an important decision. Choosing the right venue can be the difference between having a great wedding experience and a not so memorable one. For this installment of  'Wedding Wednesday,' we will bring to your attention some things to consider that will be useful for picking the right venue for you!

Budget

First things first: Set your budget. As everyone knows, the budget is the be-all and end-all (well it should be) when it comes to selecting the venue for your wedding. The importance of setting your budget before looking for a wedding venue is that it makes it easier for you to not spend more than you have or are willing to on a venue. How can you estimate your budget if you have no idea how much it costs to hold your wedding at a venue? One word: Research. Do some research in the market of the area you want to have your wedding to get an idea of the cost and based on that determine the price range for your budget on the wedding location. How much you are willing and able to spend will play a determining role in what venue and area you can have you wedding ceremony. For instance, venues in metropolitan areas have a higher price point than those in small towns. Also, if you have been yearning to have your wedding in a posh hotel, know that it will be much more costly than at a church or social club. Another factor will be the 'when' of your wedding day event. Wedding ceremonies held during the weekday will be more budget friendly than those held during the weekend. The season . One of the most important takeaways is that you be realistic when it comes to establishing a budget. If you are, it will save you lots of stress down the line.

Know The Theme

When searching for a venue, it's great to have a wedding theme in mind. Knowing what type of affair you want to have whether it is vintage or fairy tale will help to narrow down and focus your search. If you are looking to have a movie-themed wedding a performance hall or theatre could be locations to consider that would also add a nice vintage touch. For modern brides that are into minimalism, art museums and galleries are perfect match. If you are going for the nautical feel, weddings held on a yacht especially around sunset is are a beautiful experience. And for those who want something more traditional and religious, a church,cathedral, or other place of worship would be perfect. With all the endless possibilities, having a theme in mind while help you to pick the location that will bring your ideas alive.


Size Does Matter

Knowing how many people you plan on having attend your wedding ceremony (or at least a rough estimate) is very very very important in determining what kind of venues you can choose from. If want to have a small number of guests at your wedding affair than it is best to choose a more intimate setting. On the other hand, if you end up having 300 guest attend, it would be quite inconvenient and a possible fire hazard if you chose a venue beforehand that can only hold 100 people. With that said, it's best to have at least a rough estimate of attendees before choosing a venue. Another detail to keep in mind that often is overlooked is parking. Choosing a venue that can accommodate the parking needs of guests will cut down on the headache and will also lead to happier guests.


When in search for the perfect venue for your big day, it is best to be prepared. We hope these tips will better equip you to tackle on this big task ahead of you.


Happily Planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info{at}yourbigdayllc{dot}com
908-206-4107

Thursday, May 5, 2011

The Man Thursdays - Groom Speech Success

Source: www.groomgroove.com

Hey fellas! It's that time of the week, 'The Man Thursday,' where the focus is all on you - the groom to be. Today we are here to help you out with the always anticipated, sometimes dreaded groom speech at the wedding reception. The groom's speech can be a very entertaining and touching moment or it can be a pure disaster. Don't fret, we will be providing you with some tips that will help to make your upcoming speech an experience to be remembered - in a good way:


1. Keep it Short.
Make sure your speech does not exceed 5 minutes. Public speaking can be daunting for anyone. Your nerves can sometimes get the best of you and cause you to ramble on and on and on. We suggest that you come prepared. Like the saying goes 'practice makes perfect,' so try practicing your speech in front of the mirror or a trusted friend. Jotting down some major points on a notepad will be very helpful, as well. Remember, people have a short attention span, so keep your speech short and sweet.

2. Lighten up!
Your wedding day is supposed to be fun, so make sure to loosen up. If you have great timing and funny stories to share, why not try a humorous approach. Everyone loves to laugh and this will be a great way to share some details about you and your bride. So if you can pull it off, crack a joke or a few. Your guests will definitely enjoy it!

3. Flattery goes a long way
Who doesn't love to hear nice things said about them? Your groom's speech is the best time to say some complimentary things about your wife, in-laws, and other guests of honor. No need to overdo it, but a few simple words and even just a 'thank you' can do wonders. This is the perfect platform to show your gratitude to all whom you care for, so flatter away.


If you prepare yourself and make use of these tips, you will be well on your way to having a successful groom's speech. Most importantly, remember to Enjoy Yourself!


Happily Planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info{at}yourbigdayllc{dot}com
908-206-4107

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Terrific Find Tuesday - Cold Stone Creamery in South Orange, NJ

So we were hired to plan a surprise party for our client's sister (such a great gesture).  We only have a month to plan so we have had to work overtime to make this day great.  Today, we went cake shopping.

We started out at a "traditional" bakery as directed by the venue.  Its a well know well respected place that does produced really great cakes( I even use them personally) after meeting with the cake designer and noticing that we would be coming in a little over budget, I recalled a tip that my client shared about the guest of honor, She liked a specific cake from Cold Stone Creamery.  So I went to check them out and ended up at the Cold Stone Creamy that what was closet to our office located at 3 Sloan Street  South Orange, NJ 07079, by the train station.

Well BOY was I in for a treat!  The staff  was super helpful in answering all my questions & proved me wrong in a good way all at the same time.  I went in kinda doubtful thinking I was only going to be able to get a square or round plain boring cake... WAS I ever re-educated.  Instead the staff brought out books and photos of a awesome looking cakes, I was amazed!!!! Tiers, heart shapes, and even wedding cakes.  Anything you can imagine from a standard bakery cake they can do it with Ice Cream from Cold Stone.  They even deliver!!!! 

I was able to choose a cake style & discuss a design  that I know the client will love, all at a price that will fit my clients budget with the Cake Designer. Yes, they have a professional cake designer on staff just for people like us!  Can you say over joyed?

Here is a sneak peak of the design idea we have.  I can't wait to show-off the real deal in a couple weeks.



All and all so far I have had a great experience with this Cold Stone Creamery.  I urge you to check them out the next time you are looking to have some cake and eat your ice cream too.


A Couple of tips before deciding that ice cream cake is for you:

1) Time of year - In the heat of summer ice cream cake for a more formal function wedding or outdoor function may not be so wise.  If you choose to go with ice cream make sure that the place you purchase is not really to far from your venue.  Know that you may not be able to fully display the cake at your event like you would a traditional cake.

2) Advanced Prep & Planning - Ensure that your venue can support the hosting of an ice cream cake BEFORE you order.  Make sure they will have the freezer capacity to keep the cake cold until shortly before served.

Other then that GO for it!

Cold Stone Creamery
3 Sloan Street
So. Orange, NJ 07079
973-762-1835

Happy Planning,

Ingrid M. Williams
908-206-4107
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info@yourbigdayllc.com

Monday, May 2, 2011

Matrimony Monday - Whisper Sweet Somethings!

Today's Matrimony Monday Tip is simple and to the point.  Pick a day out the week where you only praise, speak highly of, encourage, and think positive thoughts about your significant other.



A kind word lives on forever.  The day to day stress of supporting a family amd meeting your responsibilities at work can sometimes take a total on a person.  Reserve one day or more out the week to be thankful for your other half.  Don't just do it in silence.  Let your partner know exactly how you feel ALL day.  Watch how fast this one practice becomes a habit.  Pretty soon  you will only be speaking good things about your Sweetie at all times

UCLA


“The way you see people is the way you treat them and the way you treat them is what they become."

- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Happily Planning,

Ingrid M. Williams
www.yourbigdayllc.com
908-206-4107
imwilliams@yourbigdayllc.com

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Terrific Find Tuesday - Hallak Cleaners

Today I went on a tour of  Hallak Cleaners.  It was the coolest thing I've done all month.  I know the first thing you may wonder is how much fun can I have a cleaners? Rest assured that Hallak Cleaners is far from just an "ordinary" cleaners. 


photos from Hallak.com
The decor and colors of the cleaners make you feel so comfortable upon walking in.  It just puts you into a great mood, along with the front of the store staff that is very friendly and helpful.  I had the honor of receiving a warm greeting from John-Claude Hallak, VP of Hallak Cleaners & Donna Serino who spearheads the bridal gown preservation division, they then took me on a behind the scenes tour of the Hackensack, NJ location and that is where the fun began!  (Please note there is a NY location. See below for details).


photo from Hallack.com

I was able to get a mini course in all the equipment that is used to make their magic happen.  They had a lot of fancy gadgets and the automation & tracking of each item that comes in was mind blowing.  However, I was most impressed by the fact that they have a person(really nice lady) who actually inspects every item before it goes back to the customer.  Nothing leaves the grounds before it gets her stamp of approval.

So WHY do you ask this EVENT PLANNER  touring a Cleaners? For two reasons:

1) The employees are GREAT
2) The EXCELLENT reputation they have for cleaning and preserving your wedding gown.

You have invested THOUSANDS of dollars into your wedding dress, why not invest in making sure its handled with care after your big day?  I highly suggest that all brides-to-be who read this blog post contact them to learn more about their gown preservation process.  What was truly impressive to me was the passion, skill, & excellence that the Hallak family and its employees operate with daily.  I could see the pride and passion that John brings to his business and that alone sold me.  I will be telling all our brides about this great service.  As  BONUS they also provide alterations if you need before wedding day.


Suzanne DeChillo/The New York Times
click here for full -article by Robin Fin

Please take a moment to check out Hallak Cleaners & tell them Your Big Day sent you.

Hallak Cleaners Contact Information
http://www.hallak.com/

New York Location
1232 Second Avenue (at 65th)

New York, NY 10065
212.832.0750


Hackensack Location172 Johnson Avenue
Hackensack, NJ 07601
201.343.7333

Toll Free: 888.343.2111
Fax: 201.343.0223

Happily planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
mailto:info%7B@%7Dyourbigdayllc%7Bdot%7Dcom
908-206-4107

Monday, April 18, 2011

Matrimony Mondays - Make It Work

Happy Matrimony Monday! We know that as engaged couples you spend a vast amount of time focused on planning the wedding day event, so we are using Mondays to provide you with relationship-focused tips to help you make it to the wedding day and stay strong in your marriage life. Contrary to the romance novels and fairy tales, once you get married it's not happily every after. For a marriage to last, it takes work. Today, we are arming you with some tools that if you start to implement now, will help to make life more blissful:

Flatter Me Daily

BettyConfidential.com

Compliments, no matter how small go a long way. Make it a mission to applaud your significant other on something specific they did on a daily basis. If you focus your energy on trying to figure out what they did right, you won’t have time to nitpick on all the little issues. Besides, tomorrow, not even the next second is promised. Make an effort to show your appreciation to those you love while they can still appreciate the gesture. Doling out daily and specific compliments may seem like something not easily maintained, but just take it one step at a time and remember:“
       Good habits, once established are just as hard to break as are bad habits." - Robert Puller 

Don’t Go To Bed Angry

Semi-Coherent Thoughts
 
Starting now make it a rule that whenever you have disagreements, you will not go to bed angry at each other - no matter what. Even if you don't argue, if either one of you feel disappointed or let down by your other half, hash it out; don’t let it fester. It’s never good to let things fester, it will only get worse and make things harder to be resolved. This may seem like it's unreasonable since some issues faced are too big to get resolved in just one day, but that's not what we are suggesting. Soon, you will be making the vow to be faithful partners to each other in good times and in bad. Marriage is in no terms an easy path; you will have really good times together and bad, tumultuous ones. When the going gets tough, you will have to constantly remind each other that you decided to go down this path, together, because you love each other. When you have your big arguments and don't see eye to eye, before you go to sleep make it an effort to say to each other, 'I'm not happy with you right now, I might still be unhappy with you when I wake up, but I married you because I love you enough to work through the bad times, together.' 

Have 'Me' Time 

Are we asking you to spend time apart? Yes! It doesn't hurt, once in awhile. Heard of the expression “absence makes the heart grow fonder”?  Well, it has some merit. Planning a wedding is a very stressful experience and allowing each other some time to focus on just yourselves can relieve some stress. You will also notice a decrease in bickering that usually comes from too much time together in stressful situations. Give each other some breathing space and focus on your individual hobbies - you won’t regret it.


Marriage is hard work. While preparing for your wedding day, don't forget to work on preparing for your life as a married couple. Marriage is not just the wedding day, it's the rest of your lives.

Happily Planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info{at}yourbigdayllc{dot}com
908-206-4107 

Monday, April 11, 2011

Matrimony Monday

It’s Matrimony Monday! We are here to provide our weekly tips about how you can build and strengthen your relationship while planning your wedding. When it comes to planning a wedding it can be completely stressful for the bride and groom, sometimes you loose focus on whats most important and why your planning the wedding in the first place. During the wedding planning take some time to show each other why you choose each other for your happily ever after. Here are just a few ideas to go with.


SPA DAY


What is a abetter way to remove some stress and tension?!? Plan a day for you and your love to be go relax at a spa together. Look into the couples treatments, this form of massage can offer a double dose of benefits. The tandem treatment invites couples to get a bit closer and reconnect, and it can enhance intimacy and teach each partner how to take care of the other. Plus, select spas allow lovebirds to get in sync by offering sessions that teach massage techniques. Pampering and rejuvenating facials, massages, and other treatments in a private day or a full day can make up a whole spa package for couples.




Dinner For TWO


Maybe you want to plan a intimate night at home, Try cooking dinner together get a bottle of wine light the candles and  make it a night to remember.  Create that world class restaurant experience right at home. What a great way to show that the romance has not gone away and  its still very much important to you.   Make it your business not to talk about the wedding while enjoying your dinner shut the cell phones off turn on some music or even put a movie in and just enjoy the night. 


 LOVE CHECK-IN


Don’t Forget about your love check ups! Take some time to go for a walk in the park, on the beach, even if you just walk in your neighborhood. Don’t get so caught up with the planning that you forget to talk to each other and just take that time to download to each other your concerns. Make sure you  both are committed to scheduling that me time where you can just sit and talk to each other. Don’t put it off because you don’t have time.  Your always going to need that time to open up to each other emotionally even after you walk down that aisle. If you use this time to discuss situations that may be bothering you OR just to pay a compliment.  You will begin to position your marriage great communication methods to help you handle other issues that will arise even after your married.








Happily Planning!!!

XOXOXOXO

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info@yourbigdayllc.com
908-206-4107
 

Friday, April 8, 2011

Find Them Fridays: KV Carriage

Friday's finally here! TGIF!!! One of the great things about Fridays are that they are a start to the much needed weekend. Now, we have another reason for you to look forward to Fridays: our new weekly segment - 'Find Them Fridays.' Every week on 'Find Them Fridays,' we will be bringing great and interesting wedding professionals right to your screen. We know that you spend a lot of time stressing over what services to get and wedding professionals to choose on your wedding day, so we have scoured the 'net to help ease your stress.

In light of the much talked about nuptials of Prince Williams and Kate Middleton, we decided to present you with a wedding professional that could help you have your own version of a fairytale wedding: KV Carriage. KV Carriage provides a fairytale experience for all special occasions whether it be for a marriage proposal or your wedding day. Having over 40 years of professional experience working with horses, this New Jersey based company offers memorable experiences on their formal horse drawn carriages and horses. They customize their services to your needs to ensure they make your experience special to you. For those planning ethnic weddings, they also specialize in Asian weddings.

If you're interested in having a horse drawn carriage or even just a horse send you off into the sunset, why not check out KV Carriage's website for yourself at www.kvcarriage.com or contact them:

Kathy & Vito Sperduto
KV Carriage, LLC
Hackettstown, NJ
908-852-4812
info@kvcarriage.com



{all photos courtesy of KV Carriage}


Happily Planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info{at}yourbigdayllc{dot}com
908-206-4107

Thursday, April 7, 2011

The Man Thursday - Groom's Lounge

Welcome to "The Man" Thursdays here at Your Big Day.   We will be posting ideas specifically geared toward guys as it relates to all things wedding and events.  I hope you enjoy!

Yesterday we suggested to allow the groom to become more involved in the wedding planning.  Today, I wanted to take it a step further, Groom Lounge.  Yes that's right a space at the wedding that the groom allow a little piece of himself to shine through.  It may get a little lost sometimes in the pink decor the bride just had to have. 

So fellas this one is for you. A few elements you can use to hook - up your lounge.

The lounge doesn't have to be a huge space or in a separate room.  It can be as simple as  a small space on the inside of the ballroom, or if you have a patio or outside space.

Here are my top 3 favorite Groom's Lounge Elements:

Table Games - Why not rent some table top games like a pool table, Foosball.  It allows for a couple of players to interact at one time.  Allows the groom and his friends some time to chat it up a bit, while they can still focus on things going on around around.

www.slava-slavik.com

Cigar Roller - Yes, there is something about a new beginning that makes guys want to whip out a cigar.  Wedding Day, Children's births, & Retirement all bring out the urge for a cigar in a man.  Why not create a space where they actually watch the artistry of the process. If you are having a spring/summer wedding it may be nice to place this outside if your ballroom has a patio connected to it.

www.litratophoto.com

Gaming Area - Do you like video games? You can ask your DJ if they have screens and gaming systems such as Wii that will allow you and you boys to get enjoy a little friendly virtual competition.  You might want to invite the ladies over for some fun. As well.


So Guys if you looking to put your stamp on Your Big Day.  Don't forget to carve out your own little groom area to let your hair down.


xoxoxo

Happily Planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info{at}yourbigdayllc.com
908-206-4107

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

WEDDING WEDNESDAY!!!!


Happy Wedding Wednesday !!!

We here at YOUR BIG DAY want all couples to have a stress free Wedding Day. We pride ourselves in making sure your day is planned to a T. For those brides are planning their wedding with a planner or on your own, here are some helpful tips to make sure its a unforgettable wedding.

SET A WEDDING BUDGET

Even if you are a gazillionare, you need to set a budget for your wedding. Once a budget is set, the next step is to determine how much you need to save to accommodate your wedding budget.  When planning a wedding its important to not go over your budget, as a wedding planner it is our job to make sure we put our clients needs and wants are met.  However, having a beautiful wedding does not mean you have to break your budget there are plenty of ways to splurge and save and get exactly what you want with out loosing track of your budget.  Bides must remain realistic and how your finances may be affected after you walk down the isle. Its important to know what are the most important items to have at your wedding and what you can do with out. We want to make sure every client is getting the most bang for your buck!!.


PICK THE RIGHT VENDOR

When picking your wedding vendors make sure it’s someone who you have great chemistry with, and will have no problem with executing your vision for your wedding. When dealing with wedding professionals (caterers, florists, photographer, etc.), You want to make sure that its clear exactly what you are expecting of them for your wedding. Make sure you give clear details and have everything in writing down to the very last detail. You don’t want to run the risk of not writing something down or it was only verbally discussed and come wedding day its not there. Clarify all the details and your expectations of the vendor during the initial consultation. Negotiate the best deal for all products and services, it’s your wedding so make sure you feel comfortable with the price your spending for the products or services you will be receiving. Most importantly, be sure to read the fine print on every contract before you sign it, ask what the cancellation policy just incase you change your mind or need to postpone your wedding.

GET THE GROOM INVOLVED

Often times the bride is the one doing all the planning for the wedding and the groom is assigned a select few tasks. To make sure you are not over stressed with handling all the duties of planning the wedding. Make sure your groom is taking on the same load of planning as you are. Don’t make him feel like he is just paying to show up for the wedding. Let him take the lead give him a list of half the items that need to be planned and allow him to make decision yes, you will need to communicate with each other to make sure both of you are okay with the finial decision. Having the groom involved will make your wedding planning a lot easier. 

HAPPY PLANNING!!!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Terrific Finds: Non-Floral Centerpieces

Hey Brides and Grooms! Welcome to our new weekly segment, 'Terrific Find Tuesdays.' Every Tuesday, we will be bringing you unique and fun ideas that won't bust your wedding budget. Our goal is to provide you with inspirations that you can incorporate on your wedding day.

First, let's start off with a quick game of word association. What comes to mind when you see the words: Wedding Centerpiece? Well, it would be safe to assume that a majority of you answered flowers without even giving it a second thought. It's not surprising, since flowers are one of the most popular and widely used forms of centerpieces at wedding receptions. With all the fantasy wedding reality shows out there displaying fabulously elaborate floral masterpieces, couples everywhere are vying to recreate them in their own weddings. However, beautiful as flowers are, creating a floral display on multiple tables can sometimes become expensive. Now, don't fret if having a grand floral centerpiece will put you over your budget. Just take a look at these fabulous budget friendly alternatives.

Fruit
When it comes to centerpieces, we usually see fruits taking on the supporting role. Don't underestimate the star power of the fruit. With the wide variety of fruit in an assortment of colors, there are many directions you can take with nature's sweets. They can add a nice splash of color that could light up a room just as well as any flower.

{Martha Stewart Weddings}

{Canada Bride}

Wedding Favors
Wedding favors are usually placed on the reception tables; why not having them as the focal point?

{Martha Stewart Weddings}

Lampshade Centerpieces
Lampshades are a fun, unique, and quirky trend that will be sure to add some pizazz at your reception. You can play around with the lighting to give off a nice effect at each table.

{Cocktails Details}

{Cocktails Details}

Candy Galore!
Any centerpiece that satisfies the sweet tooth is sure to be a hit among your guests. A candy-fied diversion is definitely an eye catcher and will bring out the child in all. What's even better than candy centerpieces....saving money! Have your sweet centerpieces also serve as wedding favors to cut down on costs.
{BridalBuds}


It's 'All about You'
Instead of having your guests fawn over a floral display, how about using your centerpiece to reinforce you and your love as the day's focal point...your wedding day IS all about you. Have different portraits set up with some trivia about you. This is a nice personal touch and a great way to share more about your journey as a couple with your guests.

{Pearl Events Austin}
{Offbeat Bride}

So, if having a floral centerpiece will put you over your wedding budget, don't panic - there are great alternatives out there. Instead, we hope that the suggestions we have provided inspire you to think outside the box and find the right fit for your wedding.


Happily Planning,

Your Big Day
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info@yourbigdayllc.com
908-206-4107

Monday, April 4, 2011

Matrimony Monday - Little Things

Welcome to our new series Matrimony Monday! We will be providing weekly tips about how you can build and strengthen your relationship while planning your wedding. Engaged couples have plenty of resources that will show you great design, color palettes, and wedding day inspiration. These things are all wonderful tools and we love blogging about them.  We wanted to use Monday as a way to remind engaged couples why they are picking out the perfect dress, centerpiece, and ceremony music...Their LOVE for each other.






We know that you love your future spouse. You probably say it a million times per day. How about allowing your actions to speak for you too... It's the little things that count. Little acts of love and kindness go a long way. We have found 3 things you can do to help show some appreciation to the LOVE of your life.



1) Love Notes - Leave a nice love note in your sweetie's briefcase, laptop or lunch bag. Tell them how their presence in your life makes your day better even on the rough days.





2) Love Check-ups - Don't get so caught up with the planning that you forget to check - in with each other on a regular basis to TALK. Make sure you schedule time for a regular check – up with each other emotionally.  It can be daily, weekly, or monthly which ever fits your style.   Be sure to honor your scheduled time just like you would an important meeting with your manager. Use this time to discuss every thing from situations that may be bothering you to reinforcing how much you love each other.







3) Schedule Some Recreational Time - pick an activity that will help you create memories. Whether a cooking class, dance lessons, or ice skating or anything else you may like to do. Find an activity that allows you to work together, be a little competitive, and just have some fun.





These are just a couple tips that we hope you can us to strengthen your bond while planning your wedding. Don't forget these small actions can be easily transferred over to your married life as well.


Do you have any tips to add? We'd love to hear them?

Happily Planning!
Your Big Day Event & Party Planning
http://www.yourbigdayllc.com/
info{at}yourbigdayllc{dot}com

Friday, April 1, 2011

We're Back!

We haven't blogged in a while and we wanted let everyone know we are back in  action.  Stay tuned for exciting post starting on Monday, April 4, 2011.  We can't wait!

Have a wonderful and safe weekend!

Friday, January 28, 2011

Cupcakes, Cookies, and Pie, Oh My!

The wedding cake: seen by most as one of THE focal points of the wedding reception (and a tasty one at that!). As appealing as wedding cakes are, not everyone starts drooling at the sight of a rich vanilla cake or even a three-tiered whimsical masterpiece. Cakes as the wedding dessert of choice have become the traditional pick, and even with the many options they can borderline the mundane. So, for those of you looking to veer off the typical eating path, even just slightly, here are some options to consider for your upcoming nuptials:


Pie in the Sky

With dozens of delicious flavors to choose from, there is a pie to satisfy almost everyone of your guests: vegan, meringue, chocolate, fruit filled, cream, etc. You can choose to have assorted pies on tiered cake stands or a buffet-style 'pie' table flanked with flowers, candles, or whatever form of decoration you choose. An added bonus is that pies are less costly than cakes.

Cupcakes Galore


Who doesn’t enjoy a cupcake? This treat is becoming quite the popular confectionery at weddings. Cupcakes can be arranged on a stand, stacked together to create a cupcake cake, and even spell out your wedding date. And if you choose to have a variety of cupcake options, your guests are more likely to find the cupcake that satisfy their sweet tooth. To give each cupcake a personal flair, how about personalizing each individual cupcake with its own special design, cupcake topper, flower….it’s up to you. When it comes to presentation and variety, the possibilities are endless.

Cake Pops


If you love a good wedding cake but want to put a twist on it, why not incorporate the absolutely adorable cake pops in the sweet portion of your reception. These bite size cake balls on sticks make for perfect finger treats. They’re just cute and sweet enough to tempt even those guests vowing to stay away. Simply put, they take the cake! .


Cookie, Cookie, Cookies


When you think of wedding sweets, cookies may not seem the go-to revolutionary and unique treat. But if you love a great cookie, it may be a good idea to share that love affair with your guests. You can arrange a colorful display of assorted cookie options that look as appealing as the cookies are tasty. For something a little different, have a giant gourmet cookie cake. You'd be surprised how a cookie can be transformed to fit your wedding. Never underestimate the power of a cookie.
 

Doughnuts

Mmmmm, donuts….at a wedding? It feels weird putting doughnuts and weddings in the same sentence let alone trying to picture them as a match made in heaven. But you have to admit, it makes your mouth water, doesn’t it? You can choose from a wide variety of doughnuts and mix and match them to create the ultimate doughnut cake.




Whether you’re looking to surprise your guests with something off-the-wall or simply compliment your wedding cake, consider having these treats at your wedding.

(Photo Credits: Brosnan Photographic, Weddingcollections, Bakerella, Eleni NYC, Wedding Bee, Budget Bride, Dog N Bird, East Side Bride, Yum Sugar, The Knot)

Monday, January 17, 2011

New Take on the Unity Candle Tradition

We’ve all seen it done before: the officiant says some words on two lives coming together and then the bride and groom each take a lit candle from their respective family candle and together light a "unity candle." The unity candle ceremony holds great meaning, symbolizing two families coming together and two individuals becoming one ‘unit.’ The problem is, nowadays this particular ceremony has become more of a routine custom and mostly goes unnoticed.

For those of you who want a unity ceremony at your wedding but one that will hold more personal significance, try putting a twist on the unity candle ceremony. Here are two alternative ideas that will get you thinking of how to incorporate the unity ceremony in a way that will make a more memorable impression at your upcoming nuptial.


Ring a Bell

An old wedding superstition regarding bells was that ringing bells at the ceremony would ward off evil spirits intent on wrecking havoc on the newlywed couple’s bliss. The bells were also thought to bring good fortune to the couple. Although this superstition has faded into the past, bells are still rung as a celebration of the couple's love, happiness, and union. 

A great way of incorporating the wedding bell tradition into your unity ceremony is by ringing bells. To start off the ceremony, the officiant can explain to your guests the symbolism of the wedding bell and walk them through the process: the bride and groom will each have a bell in hand and then after tying them with a bow, they will proceed to ring the bell together. If possible, another option is to ring the bell at the venue. This will represent the couple's commitment to work together to maintain their love through the good and the bad. After the wedding day, the bells can be placed in the wedded couple's home and whenever there is an argument, one of them can ring the bells, reminding them both of their wedding day bliss and their vow to work through the bad times, together.


Plant It Together


The planting of a tree sapling or a seedling of choice represents the start of your new life as a wedded couple. The planting ceremony works great for those who choose to have an outdoor wedding. To avoid a mess, have the sapling or seedling potted beforehand and two small hand shovels with a small scoop of soil in each. And during the planting ceremony, simply slide the scoop of soil into the pot. Another option is to just water the seedling during the planting ceremony.

This will be a constant reminder that like a plant in order for the couple’s love to stay alive and grow stronger, they will need to nurture it constantly and consistently. And as the couple works together to cultivate their relationship they will grow stronger in each other. For those who are passionate about the environment and love nature, this ceremony will hold an added meaning.



Whether you choose to include the above options in your wedding or come up with your own tradition, make sure your unity ceremony holds personal significance for you and your groom.


(Photo credits:  Shoponline2011.com, Illustrationsource.com, Micah Dahlberg Photography, 2000 Dollar Wedding)   

Friday, January 14, 2011

Food Trucks: Wedding Craze!?! or Just Crazy?

Food Truck: A new wedding trend that is catching some speed in 2011.
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Whether it is used as a catering alternative during cocktail hour, the wedding after party, or even (gasp!) the main course, food trucks are popping up at weddings and special events. This may come as a surprise since food trucks used to conjure the image of greasy food and workers with questionable hygiene - not anymore. With the increasing popularity of The Great Food Truck Race on the Food Network, gourmet food trucks are becoming more than just an LA thing.  People are starting to take notice and are incorporating them in a big way on their big day.
 
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For those looking for something different and unique at their weddings, using food trucks to cater their event is an option to consider (seriously). They offer a wide range of food choices from tacos, escargot, waffles, gourmet ice cream, cupcakes — the hardest part may be narrowing down your options. With food trucks, you can go for casual food options are something more upscale. The concept is quirky and fun. This tasty novelty can be a great talking piece and makes for an interesting photo op.

Jihan Abdalla Photography via Wedding Chicks

The idea of using food trucks at weddings or any special event could seem a little bit too off kilter for most. In fact, as interesting as the concept sounds on paper, it may not be a practical choice for every wedding or event. Even if you don't think food trucks will work for your big day, you have to admit, they sure look like a lot a fun!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Please be Seated

Often times while planning people use the words escort cards and place cards interchangeably.  However, they serve two totally different purposes within your wedding or special event.   Take a few moments to discover what their differences . 

                                         (Preston Bailey)

Escort cards -  Most often set-up outside the main ballroom of an event and direct guests to their assigned table.  The escort card will list a guest's name and the number/name.  The cards are usually listed in alphabetical order most commonly by last name.  For more formal events  you would list the name with the respective titles (i.e. Mr. & Mrs. John Doe) for informal events you would list only the first names (i.e. John & Jane Doe).  The escort card is the most common option used at weddings and special events.

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Place cards - Are set at each place setting to inform guest where they are to be seated(place) at the table.  The place card will have the name of each guest on it.  Titles used for a formal event (i.e. Mr. Doe). For more informal events no title  & last name isn't needed (i.e. John ) If there are two people with the same first name seated at the same table then the last name can be added.



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So at your next event go the extra step and add escort and/or place cards to your decor. Its sure to make a lasting impression with your guests.

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